S3x is good and necessary no doubt but only when done under the right circumstances, with the right person (read, YOUR man) and without shocking repercussions to follow the s3xual encounter. Any time you find yourself clouded with guilt after a “s3xcapade” -no matter how much later the guilt checks in-then that qualifies as bad s3x. Other examples that qualify as bad s3x examples include:
S3x shouldn’t be a chore. Instead it should be enjoyed by both people partaking in it. So when one person forces the issue and asks for s3x every other waking hour then it ceases to be enjoyable and it ends up feeling like it’s a duty and you might end up resenting not only your partner but s3x as well. When you have obligatory s3x for fear that if you don’t do it someone else will you will just be helping in killing the pleasures of s3x for yourself.
#First date S3x
This kind of s3x can make you feel useless and be sure to be bombarded by feelings of regret later. But whenever and however you choose to have s3x is always all on you. If you’re ok with feeling used or dirty than be safe and be comfortable about it and with your decisions then by all means do what you feel pleased with but be sure that s3x on the first date is not advised.
This is single-handedly the best fit for bad s3x you could probably have. Your ex is called so because you parted ways since things were not working out and when you decide to have a no-strings-attached s3x one of you is bound to get attached and the other enjoy having his cake and eating it too needless to say the ending will be one piece of ugly.
If s3x and feeling desired just because you feel all alone and you need that void filled when you’re still not over your break-up then in the long run you may end up feeling worse. When you realize that you’re not really getting what you wanted because you’re just in bed with someone for a particular reason and not because you like them yo may end up feeling worse than before.
Having s3x for one last time before you part ways never works. There’s bound to be emotions that can’t be easily fulfilled. That bitter feeling will linger on and in the case where you have hopes that your partner may change their mind after realizing how good you are together in bed, you might just end up with a bag of hurt and pain in case things don’t work out your way. Just in case it works in your favor and you decide not to part ways just yet you may end up holding on for much longer having not solved the issue that was and heaping baggage on top of baggage which doesn’t help anyone’s case.
#Peer pressure S3x
Having s3x because everyone else you know is doing it is not always the best way to go about things. You are likely not to enjoy it as s3x is enjoyable when done with the right person at the right time-that is when you are most comfortable and ready to experience.
Having s3x with someone because you are feeling pity on them is just plain lame and pathetic. If you have s3x with someone out of pity, you’re not helping yourself. He may enjoy it but what about you? S3x should be enjoyed by both parties period!
When we drink we tend to have impaired judgment on everything and when seks is involved with full intoxication you might end up doing something you will regret. Alcohol is known to decrease sensation, and mens’ ability to climax and even get it up when you’re drunk.
So you did something awfully unforgivable and your relationship is hanging by a thread and you decide seks is the answer. That he needs to remember what he’ll be missing out on. Most men cannot say no to seks, so he will just take what is being offered to him and still leave you if that is what he was planning to do and guess who comes out as lame?